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That’s the first I’ve ever been told I have a nice voice, d’awww

I’d say the vast majority of people are awkward around whoever they like, surely it’s a normal feeling. You want them to like you but you don’t know if they like you yet, you want to be funny blah blah. I always dive into the deep end, if I see someone who I like/ I just go up and talk to them- what’s the worst they can do sure if they don’t like you, there’s 7 billion other people. 

Also never consider yourself out of anyone’s league, everyone (I believe) has something they dislike about them (for me it’s my freckles) and so they degrade themselves mentally. I’ve met loads of lads who I thought I’d never have a hope of hell of going anywhere with it but what’d ya know- they liked me too and I’ve met loads of lads who I thought I’d never have a hope in hell of going anywhere with it and I didn’t, c’est la vie.

 You’re only young, you’ll meet loads of people in the next couple of decades so no need to be hungover on one particular person ‘Ob-La Di, Ob-La-Da’. If you find someone attractive just go up and talk to them, I don’t give a damn what other people think of me (if I did, I’d probably have some serious issues), I’ve been bullied, taunted, bitched and nearly everything under the sun but you know what- I don’t care. The people who bring you down are only pricks who you won’t see in a couple of years and you’ll be off doing bigger and better things and sure they’ll still be pricks. 

With regards to Elizabeth, I’ve never dealt with the situation so I can’t really offer anything, sorry. I’ve had panic attacks before but that was because of my claustrophobia and being in rooms full of people(that tale will be told some other time). My advice for them is: Just breath, go outside for a minute and it’ll be gone. Getting into a frenzy and yelling will only worsen the attack also leaving you weaker after it’s over.

Sorry for my pretty useless advice (I never plan to be a counselor-I’m just a good shoulder to lean on).

ASJ 

Oh and you think you’re the “most inappropriate person”, have you read my last couple of comments?  

ScrambledEggs said

Annadog40 said
I have always been extremely awkward everywhere. I can’t really talk to anyone without having things get awkward somehow. Though things are getting better

I used to feel exactly the same way until I went to Germany for two months. I got along just fine with everyone there. So now I figure that the people around me are just…. weird. Can’t wait to go away from this small town I live in.

Germans are some of the loveliest people I’ve ever met, bloody stereotypes make them appear to be power-seeking, always yelling individuals but they are generally friendly, easy-to-talk to people. My favourite country, I think, (apart from my Emerald Isle of course). That and they all love The Beatles (particularly Paul) so naturally I have a great time there

MrMoonlight said
I get on with girls more than I do with guys. I’m more awkward around girls, but I have barely any friends who are boys anymore. In fact, I haven’t spoken to any of my friends for months, apart from over Facebook (all of whom are girls), which is all I use my account for now. My closest guy friends just constantly spoke badly behind my back and right in front of me as well. My other friends who were guys couldn’t do anything whatsoever in terms of encouragement or help, and being so naive, it just made me feel even crappier. Apart from the two people I speak to over Facebook, you lot are my only proper friends.

Oh your last sentence just broke my heart, sending  your way MrMoonlight. 

If those lads were your “real friends” they wouldn’t have talked about you behind your back. It’s better to have one or two very close friends in which you can confide everything in, than 20 phonies (my inner Holden Caulfield is being let loose). 

Have you considered joining a new club or anything where you can meet some new people? Acting (for me anyways) was/is a brilliant way to meet people and all their interesting quirks (two lads I know who are really into heavy metal and generally give an aura of being rebellious really love ‘American Beauty’ and Disney films which I never would have guessed if I hadn’t met them and got to know them). 

Whilst us internet people are amazing (if I do say so myself) talking and meeting up with people in person is much more fulfilling and more fun than dully tapping on keyboard keys and waiting 2 days for a reply . 

Hell, join a knitting club if you want, you could find something you’re really good at and you get to make new friends, double bonus!

ScrambledEggs said
ASJ, I have to say yet again that we’ve got a lot in common. Seriously, this last week has been so weird for me – I wore makeup twice! See my picture, I feel like it’s not even me because of the makeup.But man, it’s been a heck of a social week for me. All my friends are holding separate graduation parties. Even I’m having one tomorrow. I haven’t had time to sit down for what feels like years. So, looking pretty has been a neccessity. I don’t think I’ve ever spent as much time on my appearance than I have this week.

:O Makeup is a bad word for me I was in business class before and the teacher was talking about marketing and she said “Now ASJ which target market do certain makeup brands such as Maybelline aim for?” Like the f**k do I know, do I look like I’m wearing some kind of invisible makeup??? This redness isn’t from a bottle Miss.

Also I forgot to say this but you’re really pretty

Hope your party goes well, enjoy it! A couple of my friends graduated last Thursday but I wasn’t able to go out

Great booking tickets as we speak!

Short answer: My mam

Long answer: My mam wants me to do well and losing another night of study would condemn me to getting F’s for the rest of my life!

Just kidding she’s a lovely* lady, who just wants to see me do well in life. She was away on a pilgrimage today and brought me back a pen that she got blessed to use in my exams (dawwww)

*I overuse the word ‘lovely’ far too much

Hmm it’s only €355 to fly from Dublin to Skopje but to get there it is a 13 hour flight :/ Think I might pass sorry